Nicotine and other chemicals found in tobacco and vaping products have many harmful effects on the developing brain and bodies of children and teens. Getting support for your child or teen early can help prevent or reduce the harmful effects of smoking and vaping on their body.
Parents and other caring adults have a big impact on the health decisions children make, including about smoking and vaping. Even teens say that their parents are a big influence in their lives. Talking to your children about smoking and vaping can play a big part in helping them to be informed and make good choices.
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Tips for talking to your child or teen about smoking and vaping:
Stay connected: Talk early and often with your child about their thoughts about smoking and vaping. Encourage an honest discussion by asking open-ended questions and listening more than you talk.
Be positive: Build trust by listening with an open mind. Try not to frighten or lecture your child when talking about smoking or vaping.
Focus on safety: Be prepared with facts about smoking and vaping so that you can answer their questions. If there is something that you don’t know the answer to, be honest and use the opportunity to learn together. To learn more about smoking and vaping please visit the tobacco/vaping section.
Be supportive: Youth may smoke or vape for different reasons; to fit in or to cope with stress. Create a safe space for your child by being open, non-judgmental, and understanding. Be ready to help your child find healthier coping strategies and ways to deal with peer pressure.
Set a positive example: If you smoke or vape be open and honest about why you started and how it affects your health. Try not to smoke or vape in front of your children – the more they see it, the more normal it will seem, and children often do what they see. It’s never too late to quit. Talk to your health care provider or find supports to quit in your community.
Talk with your child or teen: For information on how to navigate difficult conversations with youth on nicotine use visit the youth section.
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